Every relation is an exotic delicacy when it starts. The initial affection and the urge to impress and express takes a simple relation to a different dimension. However, as change is the only constant in life, a relationship too dives into a stream of uncertainties with time. A love that has culminated into a marriage does not always mean that it has emerged victorious. It can be very aptly said that marriage puts a love through true test and most of the times couples are not able to get a passing score. A relationship takes some amount of time to get stable and similarly, it takes a sufficient amount of time for it to deteriorate. Sometimes, the spouses unknowingly do things that push back their better halves towards the divorcing end. If you are able to pick the signs and signals, you might still do something to save your marriage or at least prepare yourself for the upcoming divorce.
These are some of the most common changes that have been noticed in a person who has decided to end it for good.
One of the earliest signs of a drifting marriage is that the partners are not interested any more in trying. As stated by various ex-couples, they tried to stay away from one another. If one was being a couch potato, the other was being a stubborn net freak. If your partner is not ready to spend time with you or participate in your plans, then you a have big thing to worry about. This could mean that he or she has already made up mind to live without you.
Another very common sign is lack of attention. When was the last time he noticed that you are wearing his favourite colour dress or when was it that she helped you choose a tie for the office? When your partner starts showing disinterest in your life, appearance, activities etc. then it should ring the bells for you. It might be because you are no more the apple of his or her eye.
One of the most easily noticeable signs pointing towards an upcoming divorce is lack of intimacy. Physical intimacy is a very strong part of a married relationship. Sex is the strongest element that keeps the fire of love burning throughout. If your partner has recently lost all his or her desire to get close to you or if he or she gets uncomfortable with your touch then it could mean that you no longer give him the joy that you once did. It could definitely lead to a divorce.
These are just a few signs that could indicate that your partner is thinking of calling it quits. You know your partner better than anyone else. Hence, if you notice a change in his or her behaviour, in their routine, in their habits then there is definitely something wrong. Take out time from your busy schedule and discuss with your spouse to find out what has triggered this change. If acted upon in time, you might still be able to save your marriage.
